It means we have a secret, at least for the first part.
It means our bodies change beyond our control.
It means that there are new expectations thrust on us, and if we’re going to be successful, we have to carefully negotiate how we handle those expectations.
Some will expect us to be full-time moms who juggle everything else.
Others will expect us to be full-time career women who juggle family.
There’s no right answer, how you handle it will be a personal decision. However, how you express your decision will certainly impact your your priorities and how you’re perceived.